I also apply this idea when clients say "well, I'm an alcoholic. That's why I drank." No, that's not true. If I'm a diabetic and I eat a donut and go into a coma, did I go into a coma because I'm a diabetic? No way! I went into a coma because I ate a donut. Once I know I'm an alcoholic, if I drink, it's because I chose not to take care of myself and do the things I needed to do. I chose not to call my sponsor, go to therapy, eat right, sleep enough, etc. Drinking prior to understanding I'm an alcoholic isn't a choice, but once I see that I have a disease, the decision is mine.
Sunday, April 12, 2009
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